Category: Grieving

  • Unfinished Business

    Unfinished Business

    Today I’m exhausted. I’ve begun the process of taking care of all my unfinished Richard business. It’s a pretty impressive to-do list. There are just so many little things that need to be done, so many loose ends that need tying. In the early days after Richard’s death I had a lot of energy to…

  • Do You Watch Old Home Movies?

    Do You Watch Old Home Movies?

    My aunt Sally died last weekend. Her funeral was today. The funeral home people provided my uncle and cousins with a nice memorial page that included a slide show of pictures of Sally. I remember going through pictures of Richard on that night when we found out he was gone. The next day, Sarah, the…

  • Two Years

    Two Years

    It’s now May 23rd… two years from the day Richard died. Yeah, I know the “official” date is the 28th of May. But that wasn’t when he died, it’s when they found him in his apartment. In my heart I know he died on this day. We were at the farm that day. I remember…

  • Grief Gut

    Grief Gut

    Let’s get one thing clear right at the start… that isn’t a picture 0f me. Most of the images used on this site came from my camera. But not that one. I bought that one. And I’ve never eaten more than half a pie at one time. Oh, and another thing. Debbie tells me she’s…

  • The Suit That Never Was

    The Suit That Never Was

    Our church consists of two separate church buildings connected by a central hall. There is the mid-1800’s era church we now call The Chapel. Our main church, the one where all the Sunday Masses are conducted, is on the other side of the hall. We call that one The Church. The Church’s entry doors are…